• How To Deal With Anxiety?

    How To Deal With Anxiety?

    “When we worry too much about our own expectations, we need to know ourselves first. What are our values, what are our needs, what is the purpose of our life and know our weaknesses and shortcomings.” -Benny Prawira, Founder Into The Light.

    Into The Light is a community built by Benny Prawira for young people aged 18-35 to prevent suicidal behavior and improve health and well-being through research, public education, and policy advocacy. In the latest episode of Bincang Inspiratif by Tanoto Foundation, Benny shares some advice to host Rachel Amanda Aurora on how to control anxiety.

    This edition covers:

    – Mental health, stigma, gender and privilege
    – Recognising discomfort and how to handle it
    – How to deal with anxiety

    Part 1 https://www.instagram.com/tv/CWX8ax7qwKw/embed/?cr=1&v=14&wp=540&rd=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tanotofoundation.org&rp=%2Fen%2Fnews%2Fhow-to-deal-with-anxiety%2F#%7B%22ci%22%3A0%2C%22os%22%3A1102%2C%22ls%22%3A972%2C%22le%22%3A1082%7D

    Part 2 https://www.instagram.com/tv/CWX9-8uq9fM/embed/?cr=1&v=14&wp=540&rd=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tanotofoundation.org&rp=%2Fen%2Fnews%2Fhow-to-deal-with-anxiety%2F#%7B%22ci%22%3A1%2C%22os%22%3A1106%2C%22ls%22%3A972%2C%22le%22%3A1082%7D

    Mental Health and Stigma

    Mental health issues have often been seen as a taboo subject as it’s so personal. Which is ironic, as it is very important for us to take care of our own mental health the same way we take care of our physical health so that it would not affect us in the long-term.

    Benny says that anxiety disorder is different to physical pain, which can often be visibly seen with our eyes. Whenever we are overwhelmed with stress, we might feel certain breakdowns which may affect our mind and physical condition: the more stressed we are the more likely we are to feel less comfortable with our own body, and it might be hard to focus.

    But just like any other health problems, anxiety disorder can be treated by consulting with professionals. Many people are worried about going to professionals as they fear the cost, but Indonesians can actually make use of BPJS, which covers psychiatric health services within its insurance. Benny emphasizes if someone’s anxiety disorder impacts their daily activity, then they really need to immediately consult with professionals.

    Recognise Discomfort and How to Handle It

    When you feel anxious it’s better to acknowledge it and learn how your body reacts. Focus on your feelings and you may notice certain sensations linked to your emotions – for example your muscles might be tense or your fists clenched. Rather than pretending that nothing is happening, it’s better to learn to identify it and understand why you feel the way you do. Then you can better deal with those feelings in future.

    Another problem that often surfaces when trying to convey this anxiety issue to parents is how they might perceive it. This often happens because of a communication gap between parents and children, and the lack of information from the parents’ side about mental health issues.

    How to Deal with Anxiety?

    So what’s the best way for us to overcome our own anxiety when we do not have anyone by our side? Benny suggests learning the ‘grounding’ technique which involves looking at five different things that we can see, four items that we can touch, three items that we can smell, and a snack that we can eat in order to help us to not focus on the anxiety and reduce the effect.

    One other thing that Benny heavily emphasizes whenever we are feeling the symptoms of anxiety is that we should never self-diagnose and that we need to immediately consult with professionals to better understand the symptoms. We need to understand that mental health is as important as physical health and should be treated as such.

  • The Entrepreneur’s Journey: Redefining Success

    The Entrepreneur’s Journey: Redefining Success

    Many young people want to become entrepreneurs, but it’s not easy. It takes determination, mental resilience, the right mindset, and of course the right strategy.

    In this episode of Bincang Inspiratif from Tanoto Foundation, we’re talking to young entrepreneur Yasa Singgih, who was listed in Forbes Magazine’s Top 30 Under 30 in 2016.

    He also won several national and international awards, including National Independent Young Entrepreneur in the category of Creative Student in 2015 and Young Marketeers of The Year in 2016 by Markplus. He played a prominent role in the documentary Film Young Business Leaders from the Ministry of Youth and Sports, and also wrote a book, “Never too Young to Become a Billionaire”, about his experience of starting his business.

    In this episode of Bincang Inspiratif by Tanoto Foundation, Yasa Singgih shares his experience with our host, Astrid Tiar.

    This episode covers:
    – His journey as an entrepreneur
    – Yasa’s definition of success
    – Tips to succeed in life https://www.instagram.com/tv/CVhx_9hK5yH/embed/?cr=1&v=14&wp=540&rd=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tanotofoundation.org&rp=%2Fen%2Fnews%2Fthe-entrepreneurs-journey-redefining-success%2F#%7B%22ci%22%3A0%2C%22os%22%3A1020%2C%22ls%22%3A919%2C%22le%22%3A1001%7D


    The journey of being an entrepreneur.

    Yasa was 15 years old when he started his first business. “I didn’t come from a family of entrepreneurs,” Yasa said. “My father was sick. My brother and I just started a new semester at school. My parents had spent the money for us already. At that point, I realized that I had to be able to finance myself. ”

    At a young age, he started to work as a part-timer in his free time, and used the money he earned to start his first business selling decorative lights and t-shirts that he bought at Tanah Abang. The journey of becoming a successful entrepreneur was not easy. The journey was like a rollercoaster, with much trial and error.

    Yasa always takes time to learn about the industry that he is involved in. “Every industry is unique and has its advantages and disadvantages,” he said to Astrid.

    The key to his success is to “always be humble to learn new things,” Yasa explained. Currently, he is the man behind the fashion brand Men’s Republic, and has just started a skincare business.

    Yasa’s definition of success

    Everyone has a learning curve, and failure is unavoidable. As the quote from Bill Gates says,”success is a lousy teacher. It seduces smart people into thinking they can’t lose.” Sometimes, it is hard and even embarrassing to accept failure, but he said we should be willing to admit it sincerely and gracefully as entrepreneurs. Therefore, we can motivate ourselves to improve to avoid the next failure.

    The other way to overcome failure is changing one’s perspective about it. Many people are stuck in a victim mode and are not able to think about how to solve their problems. “People should realize their responsibility in a situation. Then they can move on; either the situation controls them or they take control of the situation.”

    Tips to succeed in life

    During Bincang Inspiratif, Yasa shared a few pieces of wisdom for anyone who wants to be successful and an entrepreneur.

    Everyone has a different momentum. Do things to express yourself and not to impress others.

    Trust takes time to earn. Established brands became established because they consistently maintain good quality and respond to the market.

    Always have humility and willingness to adapt. “When I was younger, I learned things from people who are older than me. But now, I am learning new things from people who are younger than me,” Yasa explained.

    Always be grateful. No matter how hard the situation, we always look for a reason to wake up every morning. Knowing what we want will drive us forward. Looking around us will give us a sense of purpose.

    Don’t miss these and tips and more in the full episode!

  • Bincang Inspiratif: Nutrition and Nurturing Care for Child’s Development

    Bincang Inspiratif: Nutrition and Nurturing Care for Child’s Development

    Indonesia’s third president, the late BJ Habibie stood at 162 cm tall. To many Indonesian parents, Habibie is a testament that someone’s height does not necessarily define their capabilities. But this notion might cause more harm than good, especially if it leads parents to be lax in ensuring their child’s development.

    Height is one of the most obvious ways to detect of stunting, which is detrimental for a child’s physical and brain development. A child is stunted if their height is more than two standard deviations below the World Health Organization (WHO) Child Growth Standards median.

    “Lack of nutrition does not only affect a child’s height, but also their intelligence,” said Dr Margareta Komalasari, SpA, a pediatrician. According to Dr Margareta, not many parents understand that malnutrition does not only hinder a child’s physical growth but also their brain development as well.

    In the latest episode of Bincang Inspiratif by Tanoto Foundation, Dr Margareta spoke to host Andrea Lee about the importance of nutrition and nurturing care to a child’s brain development. This episode covers:

    • – The significance of the first 1,000 days of life
    • – Complementary food for baby
    • – Role of nurturing care in child’s development

    https://www.instagram.com/tv/CU9vkq5K6NK/embed/?cr=1&v=14&wp=540&rd=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tanotofoundation.org&rp=%2Fen%2Fnews%2Fbincang-inspiratif-nutrition-and-nurturing-care-for-childs-development%2F#%7B%22ci%22%3A0%2C%22os%22%3A1343%2C%22ls%22%3A1134%2C%22le%22%3A1294%7D

    The first 1,000 days of life

    Ensuring a child’s development does not only start from the day they are born, but from the early days of pregnancy. The first 1,000 days of life, a period between early pregnancy and a child’s second birthday, have an everlasting impact on a child’s growth and development. Early childhood care is even more crucial considering the fact that a child’s brain reaches 80% of its adult size by the age of three and 90% by the age of five.

    “A child’s development is influenced by two factors: genetics and environment, including nutrition,” said Dr Margareta. “Hence, it’s important for expecting mothers to fulfill both macro and micronutrients that are needed for the fetus’s development.”

    Macronutrients, consisting of carbohydrates, proteins, and fats, are needed in large doses. Proteins are particularly important for brain development.

    Micronutrients, on the other hand, are only needed in small doses. But deficiencies of micronutrients, such as vitamins and minerals, could have detrimental effects both in the short and long term.

    According to Dr Margareta, an expecting mother needs roughly an extra 300 calories per day, and she cautioned against recent trends in which pregnant women avoid eating too much to avoid significant weight gain.

    “It’s normal to gain weight during pregnancy. However, too much is also not good for your baby,” said Dr Margareta. “Generally speaking, the weight gain during pregnancy should not exceed 16 kg to avoid gestational diabetes or hypertension.”

    Introducing complementary food

    A newborn baby should be breastfed exclusively until they are six months old. Then, parents can introduce weaning food to their diet. WHO recommends that parents introduce pureed, mashed, and semi-solid food before gradually increasing the quantity and consistency of the food until the child’s first birthday.

    “It’s important that these foods remain complementary and that parents should care about the nutrition and the texture of the food itself to prevent choking,” said Dr Margareta. She also said that in the beginning, the baby should not consume too many vegetables as these might hinder nutrition absorption. Fruits should also be limited as they are sugary, which might lead the baby to refusing less-sweet food.

    While many parents are cooking weaning food from scratch, buying fortified food is okay too. What matters is that the child gets enough calories and nutrition, according to Dr Margareta.

    More than just food: The significance of nurturing care

    “A child does not just sit and eat,” said Dr Margareta. “They also need love and a stimulating environment as well.”

    The latter two are known as nurturing care, which is crucial to ensuring a child’s early childhood development according to the Unlocking Children’s Potential to Learn report by Filantropi Indonesia and Tanoto Foundation.

    According to Dr Margareta, nutrition alone is not enough. To ensure that a child is growing and developing optimally, parents should also provide enough stimulation especially during the golden age.

    While the pandemic has limited the activities that parents and children can do, Dr Margareta suggested that parents just need to be creative. Parents can still ask children to play catch or learn to ride a bicycle to train their rough motor skills and accompany them to draw or play with playdough to enhance their fine motoric skills.

    “When they’re in their copying phase, facilitate their creativity and let them play pretend at home,” said Dr Margareta.

    Even more crucially, parents have to help children build their self-confidence by supporting them and to not speak in a condescending manner. “Our offhand comments or criticisms might affect them profoundly. Speak with love and believe in them,” said Dr Margareta.

    “Remember, all kinds of support from nutrition to nurturing care must be integrated to ensure optimal growth and development,” she summed up.